{"id":730,"date":"2022-09-16T16:02:45","date_gmt":"2022-09-16T16:02:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mpelembe.net\/?p=730"},"modified":"2022-09-16T16:02:45","modified_gmt":"2022-09-16T16:02:45","slug":"opinion-people-in-need-dont-want-your-pity","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mpelembe.net\/index.php\/opinion-people-in-need-dont-want-your-pity\/","title":{"rendered":"OPINION: People in need don\u2019t want your pity"},"content":{"rendered":"

Kyria Stephens is the Director of Inclusion and Community Initiatives for the Buffalo Niagara Medical Campus.<\/em><\/p>\n

In the US city of Jackson, Mississippi, where more than 80% of the population is Black, residents this month\u00a0went without clean tap<\/a>\u00a0water for days.<\/p>\n

Across the country, where poor neighbourhoods are typically hotter than wealthier ones, more than 40 million residents\u00a0faced extreme heat<\/a>\u00a0in September.<\/p>\n

And in Buffalo, New York, in the neighbourhood where I grew up, a gunman this summer\u00a0murdered 10 Black people<\/a>\u00a0in a\u00a0racially motivated attack<\/a>.<\/p>\n

It has long been a pattern. Low-income communities and communities of colour are often disproportionately affected by tragedy. Nearly every time, donations and volunteers pour into the neighbourhood after the fact.<\/p>\n

These intentions are good. The resources are needed. But people in need do not want pity.We need solidarity, respect, and loving support. We need to rethink how we think about charity. Because when you share your time and resources you are not simply helping the less fortunate\u2014you are nurturing the powerful.<\/p>\n

\u2018WE SHAPE THE FUTURE\u2019<\/h4>\n

These neighbourhoods are filled with people who are powerful in spite of the obstacles placed (often intentionally) in our path, from\u00a0government-sanctioned redlining<\/a>\u00a0to more subtle yet equally destructive obstructions we face today.<\/p>\n

Food apartheid<\/a>.\u00a0Sub-par access to health care<\/a>.\u00a0Dilapidated and abandoned homes<\/a>.\u00a0Schools with poor outcomes<\/a>. Less economic opportunity.<\/p>\n

These barriers to success have historically been designed to hold Black people and low-income people back and take away our progress. Yet even with everything that is stacked against us, we have still managed to become your doctors, attorneys, and business owners.<\/p>\n

We shape the future as your teachers, professors, and chief diversity officers. We create culture as artists and entertainers and a\u00a0poet laureate<\/a>. We save lives as police officers, firefighters, EMTs and nurses. We drive the economy as CEOs.<\/p>\n

We have endured and overcome much, but just imagine how many more might have thrived if these barriers were not constantly in our way. Superheroes will emerge when you take away the Kryptonite blocking our path. Consider that historically Black colleges and universities make up just three percent of colleges and universities in the U.S., yet \u201cproduce almost 20% of all African American graduates<\/a>\u201d.<\/p>\n

\u2018WE NEED ADVOCATES AND ALLIES\u2019<\/h4>\n

Talent does not discriminate by race or what side of town you live on. When you stand with us, you are not just giving to people in need, you are investing in people you will need.<\/p>\n

These communities are not defined by poverty, but by strength and perseverance, determination and forgiveness, and unshakeable joy. We need help, but not from would-be saviours. Your donations might support us for a day or a week.<\/p>\n

But your voice, your advocacy, your determination, and your commitment will strengthen us\u2014and allow us to sustain ourselves\u2014for years. This is how we will continue to develop agency, raise our families, perform meaningful work, and build wealth for generations to come. This is where the strength of our community will truly shine.<\/p>\n

These things are all within reach. But we need advocates and allies who will speak up, share networks and resources, build relationships, and help bring about sustainable change. We need people to actively listen to the deep-seated problems we face and not just prescribe solutions, as my colleague Matt Enstice discussed in\u00a0City Forward<\/a>.<\/p>\n

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